June 28, 2009

Here’s my relationship advice

Every once in awhile take a few seconds to put yourself in his/her shoes. Would he/she know you love them? Would he/she want you to tell them about things your family says about them? Would he/she feel neglected? Would he/she know everything about you that you think they should know? Would he/she be upset with you for this or that?

I’ve come to learn that sometimes problems come up in relationships because we forget to take into account our loved one’s perspective. How are they seeing things? Because to yourself everything makes sense and seems right, acceptable or even perfect. How does he/she see it?